Living a good, fulfilled and happy life is a real eye opener to JW's who think is true what one of them said to me after I left "But you cannot be happy".
It is easy to be happy once you have left, there is so little restraint on happiness, living a good,fulfilled life takes a bit of working at, but the only restraints there are can be dealt with, most of them are old JW attitudes we need to slough off, like the snake does his skin.
Now we are free to follow the good advice I heard from the geordie comedian Sarah Millican : (Read this in your mind with a Geordie accent)
"Don't wait for the light at the end of the tunnel to come on, stomp on through there and turn the fooker on yourself !"