I was talking to an Elder who looked at a young sister's publisher record card before deciding to marry her. That marriage didn't last.
I've seen Special Pioneers break-up. One older special pioneer counseled me for having a short engagement. She later on married, and then divorced. I'm celebrating my 38 yrs pagon anniversary next month.
If she or he feels right, works hard, doesn't like to win every arguement, looks good to you, uses words like thank-you, sorry, please in their vocabulary, is better than a 10 hr a month publisher. I don't have the scriptures to back me up on this, but I do have the 38 years.