I have personally experienced a lot of change in my life after taking up further/ higher education. I no longer blindly blame JW's for everything, instead, I look at both sides of the story without being judgemental. I also tackle or attack issues and not the people.
I look at JW's as victims, which means even if they knock at my door i do not swear or shout at them, after all they are just messengers.
All this and others that i did not mention above came to be after i took up higher education.
I would like to advice those that have not thought about it to give it a try.