I would suggest that you and your wife try to figure out ahead of time how you will handle the following two questions that may come up...
1) "Do you believe the Society is Jehovah's organization?"
2) "Are you willing to wait on Jehovah to correct his organization?"
As for the first one, I was able to get away with, "I'm not sure," for a while. But after reading "Crisis on Conscience" I finally reached the point where I couldn't say "I'm not sure" to either question with a straight face.