Ha yeah well I envy all the ones who never got baptised now!!
Geez it's not fair seeing half my family who were raised or around Jehovah's Witnesses knowing fully how it works and never get baptised but still talk to the ones and going to family events!! But me heck no... the one that was praised for being such a good girl, such a spiritual girl, who got baptised for the right reasons... well now look at her... she's DFed... it's not that she's bad, she just made a bad decisions that got her in trouble and disfellowshipped... not being able to talk or hang out with family like normal... I say normal because my some close family members are back in forth about it... they will talk to me or visit. But it's all kinda secretive. But honestly and really I am so so fortunite some of my friends that were dfed never got that... family never ever talking to them. It takes a strong (secure) person to be ok with themselves, move on, but yet shunned and looked down on by loved ones.
Any who, my advice is (one who knows how it works)... wait! seriously wait!