wow everybody! thankyou for some seriously good stuff...
i need to print all this out to dwell on.
I was going to address each comment in person but far too many for me!
You are all right. I can't NOT address this with him can i? If i don't deprogram as i call it, then he breaks up with said crumpet, i have lost maybe two years of time to get the job done.
Anyway, for those who wondered about him, he is looking at starting a building trade apprenticship, has had 'experience' not endorsed by the WT Soc with a worldly girl, is already far more 'worldly' than a god JW boy should be and is taming himself for the girl.
I am so going to use your advices!