As The Listener said, if your family are "in", you can never really leave it behind (Like The Hotel California ) ..Others though just move on with their lives and find new things to do. That is good. It means that the forum is doing its' job.
I think that very few return to The Borg. Just one or two that apparently came on here to while away the time while they were working to be re instated. That is OK too. If they have heard everything we had to say but still wanted back, then I guess it is right for them. Whether they will think back in 25 years time and the system is still here? Who knows?
As for me, I just stick around , I guess I am obsessed !