Not sure abt my relationship anylonger :(

by Newborn 19 Replies latest jw friends

  • Mad Sweeney
    Mad Sweeney

    I agree with most of the advice given so far. If things are going well with the long distance relationship and you don't want to move, then don't move and keep doing what you've been doing.

    If he gives an ultimatum that it is either move or end the relationship then he's probably not the guy for you (or anyone, for that matter).

  • Ding

    Sorry about your situation.

  • cyberjesus

    When you are sure of something..... you will have no doubts.

  • Newborn

    cyberjesus : true

    I like your name

  • Awakened at Gilead
    Awakened at Gilead
    When you are sure of something..... you will have no doubts.

    It works for the anointed, LOL...

    Newborn, no more advice from me, just best wishes

  • Lozhasleft

    You'll know you've found the 'one' when you cant bear NOT to be near him.

    Loz x

  • GrandmaJones

    I don't think there is any such thing as "the one".

    "The One" is only the one you found so far. If you have doubts, keep looking. They'll be another one.

  • mamalove

    When you become unhappy, then it is time to end it. You will know. Don't settle. People deserved to be loved and adored and respected. You have needs, if they are not being met, it is more damaging to stay in a situation just because you don't want to be alone. You already know being alone is ok, and that is healthy too.

    You never know if you will meet some great person tomorrow, so hang in there!

  • Newborn

    Thanks all

    My boyfriend was here for the weekend and it felt really good (as it normally does). I cried when he left and I feel very lonely without him.

    We will just take one day at a time. It's just that the change for either of us will be very big and it's a hard decision to make and the distance is so tough. You start to question your feelings when you're not together all the time.

    Right now it feels good though and I feel very much in love.


    Ps. I wish I could post a pic of us here. We're very cute together...

  • mamalove

    That is nice Newborn. Are you on Facebook? PM me with your link, I would love to see the happy couple!

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