She may be disfellowshipped, but she is still very much under the mind control of the WTS.
If you want heartache, and lots of it, marry her.
Otherwise, run!
Andee
Closed minds always seem to be connected to open mouths
marrying jw
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Frenchy
It appears that even though she is df'd, she is still very much in the clutches of the organization. As long as that situation exists she will always feel a greater loyalty to it than she would to you. She will mistake that loyalty for loyalty to God but it will always be the organization that will take priority in her life.
Have long, meaningful talks with her and don't just listen to what she says but also what she doesn't say. It would good to remember that witnesses don't always attach the same meaning to particular words as do the general population of the world.