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  • Tatiana
    Tatiana

    The emancipation of women, the achievement of full equality between the sexes is essential to human progress and the transformation of society. Inequality retards not only the advancement of women but the progress of civilization itself. The persistent denial of equality to one-half of the world’s population is an affront to human dignity. It promotes destructive attitudes and habits in men and women that pass from the family to the work place, to political life, and ultimately to international relations. On no grounds, moral, biological, or traditional can inequality be justified. The moral and psychological climate necessary to enable our nation to establish social justice and to contribute to global peace will be created only when women attain full partnership with men in all fields of endeavor.

    The systematic oppression of women is a conspicuous and tragic fact of history. Restricted to narrow spheres of activity in the life of society, denied educational opportunities and basic human rights, subjected to violence, and frequently treated as less than human, women have been prevented from realizing their true potential. Age-old patterns of subordination, reflected in popular culture, literature and art, law, and even religious scriptures, continue to pervade every aspect of life. Despite the advancement of political and civil rights for women in America and the widespread acceptance of equality in principle, full equality has not been achieved.

    The damaging effects of gender prejudice are a fault line beneath the foundation of our national life. The gains for women rest uneasily on unchanged, often unexamined, inherited assumptions. Much remains to be done. The achievement of full equality requires a new understanding of who we are, what is our purpose in life, and how we relate to one another an understanding that will compel us to reshape our lives and thereby our society.

    At no time since the founding of the women’s rights movement in America has the need to focus on this issue been greater. We stand at the threshold of a new century and a new millennium. Their challenges are already upon us, influencing our families, our lifestyles, our nation, our world. In the process of human evolution, the ages of infancy and childhood are past. The turbulence of adolescence is slowly and painfully preparing us for the age of maturity, when prejudice and exploitation will be abolished and unity established. The elements necessary to unify peoples and nations are precisely those needed to bring about equality of the sexes and to improve the relationships between women and men. The effort to overcome the history of inequality requires the full participation of every man, woman, youth, and child.

    Over a century ago, for the first time in religious history, Bahá’u’lláh, the Founder of the Bahá’í Faith, in announcing God's purpose for the age, proclaimed the principle of the equality of women and men, saying: “Women and men have been and will always be equal in the sight of God.”1 The establishment of equal rights and privileges for women and men, Bahá’u’lláh says, is a precondition for the attainment of a wider unity that will ensure the well-being and security of all peoples. The Bahá’í Writings state emphatically that “When all mankind shall receive the same opportunity of education and the equality of men and women be realized, the foundations of war will be utterly destroyed.”2

    Thus the Bahá’í vision of equality between the sexes rests on the central spiritual principle of the oneness of humankind. The principle of oneness requires that we “regard humanity as a single individual, and one's own self as a member of that corporeal form,”3 and that we foster an unshakable consciousness that “if pain or injury afflicts any member of that body, it must inevitably result in suffering for all the rest.”4

    Bahá’u’lláh teaches that the divine purpose of creation is the achievement of unity among all peoples:

    “Know ye not why We created you all from the same dust? That no one should exalt himself over the other. Ponder at all times in your hearts how ye were created. Since We have created you all from one same substance it is incumbent on you to be even as one soul, to walk with the same feet, eat with the same mouth and dwell in the same land, that from your inmost being, by your deeds and actions, the signs of oneness and the essence of detachment may be made manifest.”5

    The full and equal participation of women in all spheres of life is essential to social and economic development, the abolition of war, and the ultimate establishment of a united world. In the Bahá’í Scriptures the equality of the sexes is a cornerstone of God’s plan for human development and prosperity:

    “The world of humanity is possessed of two wings: the male and the female. So long as these two wings are not equivalent in strength, the bird will not fly. Until womankind reaches the same degree as man, until she enjoys the same arena of activity, extraordinary attainment for humanity will not be realized; humanity cannot wing its way to heights of real attainment. When the two wings . . . become equivalent in strength, enjoying the same prerogatives, the flight of man will be exceedingly lofty and extraordinary.”6

    The Bahá’í Writings state that to proclaim equality is not to deny that differences in function between women and men exist but rather to affirm the complementary roles men and women fulfill in the home and society at large. Stating that the acquisition of knowledge serves as “a ladder for [human] ascent,”7 Bahá’u’lláh prescribes identical education for women and men but stipulates that when resources are limited first priority should be given to the education of women and girls. The education of girls is particularly important because, although both parents have responsibilities for the rearing of children, it is through educated mothers that the benefits of knowledge can be most effectively diffused throughout society.

    Reverence for, and protection of, motherhood have often been used as justification for keeping women socially and economically disadvantaged. It is this discriminatory and injurious result that must change. Great honor and nobility are rightly conferred on the station of motherhood and the importance of training children. Addressing the high station of motherhood, the Bahá’í Writings state, “O ye loving mothers, know ye that in God’s sight, the best of all ways to worship Him is to educate the children and train them in all the perfections of humankind. . . .”8 The great challenge facing society is to make social and economic provisions for the full and equal participation of women in all aspects of life while simultaneously reinforcing the critical functions of motherhood.

    Asserting that women and men share similar “station and rank” and “are equally the recipients of powers and endowments from God,”9 the Bahá’í teachings offer a model of equality based on the concept of partnership. Only when women become full participants in all domains of life and enter the important arenas of decision-making will humanity be prepared to embark on the next stage of its collective development.

    Bahá’í Scripture emphatically states that women will be the greatest factor in establishing universal peace and international arbitration. “So it will come to pass that when women participate fully and equally in the affairs of the world, when they enter confidently and capably the great arena of laws and politics, war will cease; for woman will be the obstacle and hindrance to it.”10

    The elimination of discrimination against women is a spiritual and moral imperative that must ultimately reshape existing legal, economic, and social arrangements. Promoting the entry of greater numbers of women into positions of prominence and authority is a necessary but not sufficient step in creating a just social order. Without fundamental changes in the attitudes and values of individuals and in the underlying ethos of social institutions, full equality between women and men cannot be achieved. A community based on partnership, a community in which aggression and the use of force are supplanted by cooperation and consultation, requires the transformation of the human heart.

    “The world in the past has been ruled by force, and man has dominated over woman by reason of his more forceful and aggressive qualities both of body and mind. But the balance is already shifting; force is losing its dominance, and mental alertness, intuition, and the spiritual qualities of love and service, in which woman is strong, are gaining ascendancy. Hence the new age will be an age less masculine and more permeated with the feminine ideals . . . an age in which the masculine and feminine elements of civilization will be more evenly balanced.”11

    Men have an inescapable duty to promote the equality of women. The presumption of superiority by men thwarts the ambition of women and inhibits the creation of an environment in which equality may reign. The destructive effects of inequality prevent men from maturing and developing the qualities necessary to meet the challenges of the new millennium. “As long as women are prevented from attaining their highest possibilities,” the Bahá’í Writings state, “so long will men be unable to achieve the greatness which might be theirs.”12 It is essential that men engage in a careful, deliberate examination of attitudes, feelings, and behavior deeply rooted in cultural habit, that block the equal participation of women and stifle the growth of men. The willingness of men to take responsibility for equality will create an optimum environment for progress: “When men own the equality of women there will be no need for them to struggle for their rights!”13

    The long-standing and deeply rooted condition of inequality must be eliminated. To overcome such a condition requires the exercise of nothing short of “genuine love, extreme patience, true humility, consummate tact, sound initiative, mature wisdom, and deliberate, persistent, and prayerful effort.”14 Ultimately, Bahá’u’lláh promises, a day will come when men will welcome women in all aspects of life. Now is the time to move decisively toward that promised future.

    April
    I was angry with my friend; I told my wrath, my wrath did end. I was angry with my foe; I told it not, my wrath did grow. (William Blake, A Poison Tree)
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  • BERNARD
    BERNARD

    YOU GO GIRL RULER OF THE WORLD MOTHER OF THE EARTH

  • AIRVIEW1
    AIRVIEW1

    Well I for one absolutely love and adore women. It gives me great pleasure in putting a woman on a pedastal. I am of the romantic nature
    and enjoy holding the door open for a woman. Kind sweet women make me STRONG! I am a protector of women. I love to see em, communicate with them and work with them. I think men rule because they love women so much....they want to stay in control to protect them.

    airview

  • Xena
    Xena

    Great post April...thank you!

  • anewperson
    anewperson

    Despite the Watchtower and other groups misteachings that the Bible itself does NOT back up unfairness to women as this proves:

    THE WOMEN MINISTERS CONTROVERSY (RO 16:1): All the way into the 21st
    Century the more common view was that the Bible nowhere sanctions
    female ministers even though at Romans 16:1 Paul says "I recommend to
    you our sister Phoebe a minister of Cenchreae's congregation," and he
    asks that she be assisted because she defended many including himself
    (16:2). Also, few note that Prisca, also called by her longer name
    Priscilla, along with her husband Aquilla both risked their lives for
    Paul, maintained a church or house congregation in their private home
    (Ro 16:3), and that she and Aquilla took in Apollos, already a
    capable teacher, and instructed him even more correctly about God (Ac
    18:26). Further, Paul said let older respectable women be TEACHERS of
    what is good, though it is true that he also added that haughty women
    must not teach or disrupt meetings (1Co 14:33-4), something obviously
    equally true for men who are haughty.

    In reality the only true perfect teacher of a Christian group was to
    be the Bible itself through which comes the wisdom of God's own
    Spirit (2Ti 3:16). Also, note that not a few but in fact many women
    went to minister to Christ and the 12 apostles, women were among the
    120 receiving Holy Spirit at Pentecost (Ac 1:14) and women definitely
    ⌠prophesied, meaning that they as well as men saw and spiritedly
    spoke out for God's will (Ac 2:17-8). Some other notable women in
    the New Testament part of the Bible are Lydia, Dorcas, and Martha.
    In the Old Testament or Hebrew-Aramaic scriptures Esther, Ruth and
    Naomi, Martha, Sarah were notable, and Judges tells us that Deborah
    was a Judge, meaning she served as did other Judges such as Samson.

    In reality each individual believer and groups of two or more
    believers has the right to decide for themselves as to who actually
    deserve to be called their house (of God) servants, meaning their
    ministers. First century structuring was by autonomous cooperating
    house-churches rather than by a top-down hierarchy such as Rome later
    forced onto believers until Protestantism renewed much of the lost
    Christian freedoms. Paul said all things are possible but not all
    things advantageous (1Co 6:12, 10:23) so, for example, even today in
    some places, notably in some Muslim lands, calling a woman a minister
    could even endanger her life.

    Therefore, as Paul said, we should simply let each Christian make the
    decision as to whether or not to consider a respectfully behaved
    Christian woman as in fact acting as a minister for them and others
    (Romans 4:15, 14:1-5, 1 Cor 10:23). Being a servant of God
    (minister) is not properly a position of power and control over
    others, but simply an untitled condition of humble, helpful service,
    an acknowledgement of fact by virtue of deeds and attitudes. Writing
    in the year 111 A.D., not long after the apostle John's death, the
    anti-Christian Roman Pliny the Younger noted that he had had two
    women tortured for being deaconesses, that is congregational servants
    (unsalaried ministers). In October 2000 Jimmy Carter, a former USA
    President, disassociated himself from the Southern Baptist Convention
    which he said was trying to force all members oppose women ministers,
    although staying a deacon in his Plains, Georgia Baptist church
    which, like some other Baptist churches, is not against women
    ministers.

    So the reality is that good women have always been good servant-
    ministers, and in case any wonder, a Christian man wrote all the
    preceding which says that in Christ all servants are simply
    Christians regardless of sex, race, etc (Ga 3:28, Ac 10:34). The
    writers of this are part of an international, informal nonprofit
    fellowship of Christians, the Active Christians of Jehovah. We
    encourage all interested readers to reproduce copies of this and
    distribute them to others. Visit our nonprofit Jah Christians egroup
    for FREE CHRISTIANS at the following website to request more free Bible literature and information: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/jahchristian

  • Rex B13
    Rex B13

    >Despite the advancement of political and civil rights for women in America and the widespread acceptance of equality in principle, full equality has not been achieved.

    Crap. This article is filled with rhetoric.
    What this article promotes is ignoration of biological facts, not equality, this is an affront against scientific research that has proven that men are better at some things and women at others. Many radical femininsts use this jargon to justify man-hating and intolerance of valid religious beliefs. Human society has always been hinged on the logic of family life that is the best upbringing for children. Same sex marriages, single parenthood just does not do the job that a happy family life does.
    Until the women's movement accepts the biological facts showing that they are weaker (generally) in the physical skills, strength and coordination we will have the ridiculous attacks on occupations that women clamor to be involved in but can't handle.
    Who do you want carrying you out of a burning building; 6', 220lb. "Leo" who bulges with muscle or some 120 lb. "April" that can barely drag herself up a ladder in fire battle gear?

    Feminists in the western democracies need to go into a third world (or Islamic) country to see how bad it can really get. At the saem time they should realize that some of their causes may endanger society into a collapse and return all of us to a barbaric existence (as would major nuclear war or a asteroid strike) and then mankind reverts back to what is natural. Radical Feminists do not live in the real world at all.
    The natural order is not at all what the Wiccans or Ba Hai say it is....
    Rex

  • Silverleaf
    Silverleaf

    Hey Rex,

    "Until the women's movement accepts the biological facts showing that they are weaker (generally) in the physical skills, strength and coordination"

    Try giving birth and tell me how 'weak' women are. Can you say

    ID 10 T?

    Silverleaf

  • expatbrit
    expatbrit

    Aah equality. One of our most cherished myths and over-used propaganda devices.

    The more I see of humanity, the more I agree with Thomas Hobbes: the first principle of human behaviour is self-interest. We are all engaged in the eternal war of all-against-all with the objects of our personal desires as the spoils. In the eternal war, we make and break shifting alliances with those whose objectives temporarily correspond with our own. We band together in societies, religions, corporations and nations, and all of these "Leviathans" wage the eternal war upon each other for those same spoils, power, possessions, pleasure.

    Such an aspect is the "war of the sexes", the struggle for "equality", in which women band together to achieve power and men to keep the power they have.

    And propaganda is an important weapon in the war. The propaganda of "we only wish to be equal". Can you really imagine when women have equality, that superiority (the superiority that men have enjoyed and have used to cause so much suffering to women) will not be the next objective. Is there still that naivete in the world?

    Bahá’u’lláh prescribes identical education for women and men but stipulates that when resources are limited first priority should be given to the education of women and girls.
    But the balance is already shifting; force is losing its dominance, and mental alertness, intuition, and the spiritual qualities of love and service, in which woman is strong, are gaining ascendancy.
    How much we delude ourselves. Humans are animals. Intelligent hyenas squabbling over the twitching corpse of Mother Earth. Such is the way of the universe.

    Expatbrit

  • waiting
    waiting

    Women can never take this away from men. We die sooner. Author unknown at the moment, but obviously a man.

    And I am joking - and I agree with expatbrit, at least the part I understand.

    waiting

  • Tatiana
    Tatiana

    So, Rex, you're actually saying that the world has been and will always be a "better" place, if it stays the way it is now? And that it wouldn't be a safer, freer, more balanced place if women were not treated the way they have been throughout the centuries?

    Who's it better for?

    expatbrit--there never should have been a struggle in the first place.

    April
    I was angry with my friend; I told my wrath, my wrath did end. I was angry with my foe; I told it not, my wrath did grow. (William Blake, A Poison Tree)
    http://www.network54.com/Forum/171905

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