yup but you get used to it. life goes on, you age , you change with life experiences, you have kids, your perpectives and priorities change.
and then when you get them back its a bit of an anticlimax cos those nostalgic memories you have dont really resemble the reality. your mind unrealistically expects everything the way it was back in the past before the implosion but neither of you have stood still for 10 years.
we put the shunning crap down to experience and we mended best we could. but he was never my dad again and i doubt i was ever his daughter.