Thank You for all the comments. My son and I disussed what might happen before we attended. We thought we were prepard but you can't control the dissapointment and hurt we felt afterwords. My son and son-in-law made sure that the rest of my visit was enjoyable. My love goes to these two great men who both are kind and never goes out to hurt others. Maybe this opened my sisters eyes a little more I saw the sadness in her eyes.
Disfellowshipping is an loving arrangment. NOT!!!!
An update on the above experience. My son is receiving phone calls from family that was at this same reception. My cousin brother who also left JWs just heard about my son being asked to leave. He expressed his anger about this happening at his sisters funeral. He will make his feeling known to other family member both JWs and non JWs. JWs are not looking kind and loving.