Two years ago I would have answered this question in an exact opposite way. I wanted a divorce for the pure reason that I wanted to distance myself from the JW's as much as possible We were at the stage of having consulted divorce lawyers individually. However we tried to work things out and were actually successful, in fact I would say our family life has been better than anyone, both "worldly" or JW that we know. We have three small children which made the situation trickier. In retrospect I believe what saved our marriage was the recognition on my part that I married a woman with really only one flaw, her religion (and she is HOT by almost everyones standards :))
I cannot discount my wife's ability to accept my stance as being the key. I know many of you are not so lucky. I let her go do her JW things, she can take the kids, and I get hours of free time which I dont need to explain or ask for. I know many of you would suggest I need to get the kids out as this was my initial reaction. I really don't have an issue with them being exposed to the morality of JW's (this is my wifes big selling point). I will just present the opportunity for them to think critically and let them decide ( I am convinced if leaving this religion is made easy, 95% of people would leave).
The solution to the differing beliefs problem will not work itself out immediately. but ask yourself;
Did you marry your spouse because you were both JW's and that is what you were supposed to do?
Do you have anything else in common to support your relationship?
Do you think your mate will eventually accept your religious views (not an easy question to answer objectively)?
Most inportantly-Does yoour mate want to stay married? If not your only delaying the inevitable.
Just realize, there are some of us married to active JW's that have managed to make it work.
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