If we tolerate this then our children will be next
How about visiting a Kingdum Harl, and chatting with those who remember you, and when they ask how you are, tell them that "You have never been better" Your confident reply along with a natural smile which they have probably never seen in a KH before (LOL) my help to get them thinking.
It is difficult to help anyone out of the borg. but as one previous poster pointed out, our success in getting on with our lives is one way of making them think. They simply don't believe that you can be HAPPY and not an active JW.
You could alway's stay for the last hour........well maybe