its_me!,
I'm having the same problem in dealing with my mom. I don't have much advise because this all started for me a few weeks ago and it's not over yet. But I just wanted to tell you to not feel alone, a lot of us are going through this. Quandry is right about your relationship with your mom. I was planning on using the excuse with my mom that I stop going to the meetings because I was depressed but it didn't work out that way and now she knows that I'm having major doubts about the religion. It's hard because I don't want to loose my mom but I'm not going back to the meetings.