:What! taking care of their own before helping others.
No. Taking care of their own and NOT helping others. That's the pattern in disaster-after-disaster and I've been watching the pattern as an adult for 4 decades. There are exceptions, but they are VERY rare. Anyone who's been around dubs should know they are the most selfish people in the world and care only for themselves. Even their preaching is to save their own sorry asses, not because they "love" non-members or even care about non-members.
You can't bullshit me.