Hi lemon Lime...
I totally understand what you are posting about.
I tend to not trust anyone, have few friends, and anyone new I assume will eventually dump me. So I don't invest in relationships at all. My own family and entire community I grew up with was able to throw me out, why wouldn't a stranger do it sooner?
People I have made friends with get upset that I don't maintain the relationship.
Its extremely hard. My family has changed their minds but, I still don't trust them.....tomorrow they may get word to dump me like yesterday's garbage.
It's a horribly lonely way to live, but I trust very few people in my life.
r.