My wife ran into a jw the other day who apologized to her for having 'shunned' my wife the other day. Turns out that my wife never even saw her the day she was 'shunned'.
The apology was telling though: "I just wanted to say I was sorry for ignoring you the other day. I was under the impression that you had 'left Jehovah' just as your husband has done. I spoke to my uncle Dale [a local elder] who told me that you had not, so I wanted to apologize."
What a bunch of arrogant assholes! Who phrases an apology with 'well I thought you deserved it due to your free choices that I disagree with, and that might have agreed with your husbands choices" ?
Furthermore - I have never announced to any of those self-righteous asses my opinion of their Jehovah. My wife is of precisely the same opinion as I am BTW - she just has not DA'd due to family still inside and alive. They do not speak to me, so how would they ever know what I think about anything? Nooooo, these people aren't playing the judge..... Wow!