The last official 'meeting' I went to was in January at our two day assembly. Believe me I didn't want to go but I did and took a different kind of notes. For one I wrote down in my note book words like "Faithful and Discreet Slave", GB, Organization, Fruits of the Spirit, Jesus, and put a check mark next to each time I heard one of them, (just like when we were kids guys!). Then I wrote down every scripture used and put a mark next to it if it was just quoted and another mark if it was actually read. Here were some of my conclusions after the full two days:
They used the words that had to do with the org WAY more than Jesus himself. The ONLY time I heard the word Love, and I'm not kidding, the only time, was in a specific talk about loving our family or something like that, and I never heard ANY of the other fruits mentioned at all. The scriptures we used were about the same 50 we always use, only about 10 were ones I was not very familiar with. They quoted and read about the same.
Now, granted, this was a themed program so it might not work as well, of course your going to hear certain things based on a certain theme. I can't quite remember the theme, I think it was about Conquering the Evil with the Good. I remember thinking after that weekend, that they spent so much time talking about Satan and all the evil, really keeping people in 'fear', and NOTHING except one talk on the Good. I walked away from there feeling so negative, and on a low energy frequency thinking "Satan must feel really good that they just spent the whole weekend talking about him", his plan is working even within this religion. It's like a naughty child, they don't care what kind of attention they get, as long as they get it. (Assuming you believe Satan is real).
So this did two things for me and could work for you guys: one, it absolutely sealed for me that I would never go back, and I haven't, and two, I looked like I was taking really good notes the whole weekend! But I would really love someone who is still going to regular meetings to take these kind of notes, since they are not themed like an assembly, and see what kind of results they get.
Oh ya, my 18 year old son who was with me, during the Baptism talk, actually for the first time heard the second question and I did to. We never even caught that until now. He spent most of the meeting reading context of scripture and our eyes just opened wider and wider, so I guess in a strange way, we have them to thank!