Seriously, have you two ever read Confederates in the Attic? It's a really good non-fiction book and in it one of the characters annually goes on a "Civil Wargasm" where he visits various Civil War sites and spends the night in a tent, etc. It sounds like lots and lots of fun.
If you haven't read that book, you really should. It's good and give a unique perspective.
Seriously, if either of you were ever near Gettysburg, I'd come over for a mini-apostafest. I'd even go along with setting up a real apostafest there, but I think you're both pretty far away from PA! I'm next door in Beautiful Ohio.
St. Ann