Well....if it were up to me, I would start with new music.
Then I would let everyone drink Memorial wine and we would do this every week.
My services would be fun and everyone would "qualify" to have a turn to speak out.
The meetings would look something like this, probably because everyone would get their very own memorial wine carafe.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=215C-tadRmk&feature=PlayList&p=F081B55D53D53A95&index=2