Yes, anger. Yes, yes, yes. They took over thirty years of my and my husband's lives. I'd like them all back. I am fifty seven years old. Some years back I wanted to go back to college but my then elder husband pointed out that the example that I would set would not be good for the congregation. He was sincere.....so now we both toil, have no retirement to speak of, and must work till we drop.
At least we are out now, and Sat. and Sun. are no longer days to rush around getting everything done.
If they come to our door we don't answer.