Thanks JeffT. I couldn't find it.....that's what I've read elsewhere too so I think it's probably true. (?)
I imagine then jws should be advised they are violating Caesar's law by not fully participating, so they should do the maximum their conscience allows, stopping short of violating God's law....if their conscience allows them to stand but not put their hand over their heart and recite, then they should stand. (?) They shouldn't be sitting down just because they are lazy and can escape punishment--sitting should only be done if their conscience requires it.
This is something that affects a relative of mine......I may bring it up....
As to the silly hiding of the flag behind the bookcase, well, let them keep on with their silliness!