Ok heres the scenario.
I met this girl about 12 months ago, we dated for around 6 months then split up (another story). We have started seeing each other again for around 3 months now.
The problem is, if i can call it a problem, she has two kids, whereas i have three that i see on thursdays and saturdays. Her ex has her kids every other Saturday. The other weekend she is away at a caravan her parents have on the Welsh coast.
I have never met her kids, she has never met mine. We both prefer this, because the relationship is newish neither of us want to involve the kids.
Now, this doesn't really leave us any time to see each other. Normally we see each other a Wednesday night as her mom babysits. But last week and possibly this week her mom can't do it. Therefore we will be going 2 or 3 weeks without seeing each other.
I really feel that i am at a point where i cannot continue with a relationship where we don't spend much time with each other. I understand the kid situation, but surely a relationship cannot grow if you don't spend much time together? I would love to hear peoples opinions on this, especially women. Am i being harsh? I don't think so. She can make a Saturday when her ex has hers, but i am not going to give up a Saturday without seeing mine and can't change it to a Friday due to my ex's work commitments.
Although i think this girls great, i can't help feeling at times that i would be better off single and back on the market so to speak.