What I mean is, ones who loved the meetings and field service. Ones who loved telling a person why they dont celebrate Christmas, birthdays etc etc.........................ones who thought it wonderful that their children missed out on so much, and stood out in school and became a target for bullying.
I myself did everthing because I was terrified of the big "A" and so thought everything was worth it. But I hated going to meetings, hated going on FS, hating not celebtating christmas and never really excepted the birthday thing. Their where so many red flags that I ignored cos I thought it was the truth.
I know wonder how many in my congregation felt the same and secretly want it not to be true and get out.