My ex was one of those drop dead gorgeous girls... a real head turner. And, in South Florida there were tons of hot looking girls in the Borg...especially the Hispanic sisters...OMG. But, I don't think I was particularly geeky looking.
It didn't do me any good though, being married to a drop dead gorgeous woman. The Borg made sure of that with their bedroom laws and general prudishness about sex.
My ex was a virgin (raised in the Borg) who didn't believe in sex before marriage. The problem was that marriage didn't change her mind...she still didn't believe in sex. It few and far between.
Alas, a wasted youth.....