Hey AK - Jeff,
Been kind of on a hiatus, but still lurking all the time. Great question BTW
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Do you shun Jw's now?
by AK - Jeff 31 Replies latest jw experiences
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sass_my_frass
I'm finding myself thinking exactly the same thing. Early on the hurt was so acidic and painful that I've come to realise that I don't want anything at all to do with people who could treat my husband and I that way. They're not likable people. They're rude, shallow, manipulative, deluded, brutal, and pretty boring actually. Yes I know why they're all of those things, but that doesn't excuse their behaviour. It's great not wanting them back anymore.
I think I'm starting to actively dislike them and I know that's not good for me. I want to let it go, but my problem is forgiveness. I am finding it hard to forgive people who will never acknowledge what they've done wrong. I have to work on that.