Sex dream dilemma

by 5thGeneration 18 Replies latest jw friends

  • 5thGeneration
    5thGeneration

    Been married 16 years. Never have or would cheat on my wife.

    Problem is...

    Even when I have a 'dream' about cheating I wake up before I can pull the trigger.

    I'M EVEN LOYAL IN MY DREAMS DAMMIT!!!

    Life's just not fair!

    P.S. The sex topics always get a lot of attention.

  • flipper
    flipper

    5th Generation- Glad to hear you can't pull the trigger in dreams or real life ! I too have had dreams in the past about people I would never, in a conscious mind dream about ! I have never understood what causes it to come up in my unconscious mind then ! Just an active guy that way I guess ! Peace out, Mr. Flipper

  • BFD
    BFD

    Matthew 5:28

    I wonder if that applies to dreams? Regardless of whether or not you pull the trigger.

    BFD

  • ex-nj-jw
    ex-nj-jw

    5th gen - your a good guy!!! I've never cheated on my hubby either but I have had dreams about other guys, usually a movie star Then I wake up and give the hubby all the lov'n he deserves, cuddle back up with him and drift off to dream land.

    I wonder if the wifey knows what a good man she had?

    nj

  • misanthropic
    misanthropic

    I think that's good. It says something about you, although in my dreams I've slept with people I don't even know and/or have never met (sometimes yes, incredible sex) but yeah that's why it's a dream ;-) I have never felt bad for it in a relationship at the time or not. I wonder what that says about me? Hmmmmmmmm

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow

    Even if you did pull the trigger, it's only a dream. Dreams aren't always about what we think they are.

  • bikerchic
    bikerchic

    I think it's pretty normal to do that. I worry more about getting to the age where I can't remember I had sex in a dream, sigh.

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow
    I think it's pretty normal to do that. I worry more about getting to the age where I can't remember I had sex in a dream, sigh.

    Hey, Kate, I hear you. My concern would be more getting to the age where I can't remember what sex is.....period.

  • Gregor
    Gregor

    Be glad you don't "pull the trigger". Think of all the added laundry and explanations to the wife.

  • bikerchic
    bikerchic
    My concern would be more getting to the age where I can't remember what sex is.....period.

    LOL yeah I've heard alzheimer's described as this; it's not that you forgot where you put your car keys, it's that you've forgotten you have a car!

    Sex should't be a dilemma especially in a dream!

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