Okay, so I'm planning my own Birthday party/get-together/something as I want to do something fun for my 21st.
The thing is.. I don't know what to do, besides go out and get drunk. Most of friends... okay the two or three I have... are now use to *not* having to get me anything because they are cheap and took advantage of knowing a JW kid. But, now I want to do something and I have no idea about doing it.
It stil seems kinda silly to me, to celebrate a day that is like any other day, but I will be Twenty-EFFING-One and I've never been a drinker or party-type-guy. I mean really, I can count the number of hard drinks I have on one hand. So, I want to do something fun and to make a big deal out of it 'cause I was always so pissed having to leave the room during grade school when someone had a birthday or dealing with the guilt of NOT leaving and eating a cupcake and my family fiding out about it.. I hated being invited to parties and weaseling out of it even when I would have liked to go. I mean, people attend weddings of relatives they can't stand or they can stand who are getting married to people they otherwise hate... but they still can go. I never liked having to be on the outside as a kid, and no my family wasn't big on the 'alternative' parties like other witness familes are.
I just wanna have fun, like an evil materialistic worldy person/Fire breathin' man-lovin APOSTATE!!!one111
Except... I have no idea how. And i think I should figure it out before I start inviting people and we end up staring at each other playing Uno or something. So ideas?
And to not make this thread all about me... even though I am awesome and amazing and hot and stuff, lol... tell me how you all deal with the bithday situation now that you have escaped the pen. Do you celebrate it or is it just another day? And if you do what do you do and how was your first 'party/get together/thingy' like?
-sw29