So i'm 11wks pregnant (hooray!) and hubby has been undecided whether to even bother telling his jw lot about it as they are shunning me (d'ad) and have hardly anything to do with him or kiddies.
Anyway he was away yesterday and she rang him just to find out train times (only reason she ever rings cos she wants him to fiddle her cheap tickets), he said 'by the way youre gonna have another grandchild soon' what did she say was she pleased did she say congratulations?Hell no!"Oh right" then silence, then "Well i won't be allowed to see it anyway will i seen as D's d'ad herself". So then he replied that i have always said if she wants to see the kids she is always welcome at our house. To which she says shes not allowed to and if we want her to see them he has to take them to their house (no way the last time she was alone with my eldest she tried to get him to say he wanted to go to meetings).Hubby told her hes fed up with the daily shunning i get and he wants to bang their heads together those that do it at the school he says i've done nothing wrong except to not believe it, she says i have cos i celebrate xmas (after i left).Then says how hard my sis in law finds it to ignore me because my son is her nephew - how do they think i feel being ignored everyday when all i wanted was to enjoy taking my little boy to school and back, now i dread it though i don't let them see that. Then she says her elder husband wants to know how hubby feels about my sign on the door saying no religious callers - but he changed the subject cos i know they are on his trail now too.
Anyway sorry to rant, i just think its sad that religion comes before her own kids and grandkids, she even had the nerve to mention blood and saying i'd probably have it and give it to the kids if they needed it - umm definately yes!!! One good thing thats come out of it though is hubby sort of standing up against her as hes usually scared stiff of her, she sent him to school with a black eye once, not the nicest of people!