Brief history: My mom shuns me, my step dad is not a JW but thinks pretty much like one and called me apostate when I tried to tell him some things. My step dad and I have never been close, he was verbally abusive to me growing up.
Well, last week he and my mom fly up my ex- and his wife with my daughter (All JW's) to go boating with them and my sisters kids. I am glad my daughter got to see her cousins....but, I am sure if they talked about me at all it was not positive talk. I do not get a call while my daughter is there, however I get a call from step-dad after she's gone to tell me what a great time they had.(he left a message, I did not answer)
I understand they are in a mind-numbing cult and maybe do not realize how messed up it is to fly an ex-son in law and new wife to hang out with the family...but, I am PISSED and refuse to answer my step-dads calls and wonder should I tell him why....or avoid talking to him at all.
What I want to say is "Don't you see something is wrong with this picture?? If my own MOM won't talk to me or her other grand daughter, WHY would I want anything to do with you?? Call me when we can be a real family, OK?"
Then I sound like a "bitter hatefull apostate"....right?
Arrrrrrrrgggggggggg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!