Bluesbreaker, Mr. Flipper here. So sorry for your loss. Man, just act like a normal human with normal human compassion for relatives. Give hugs, cry with those who cry. Act like there is no difference between your dub relatives and you. Because during this moment there is no difference. You are all grieving, be yourself, don't let them make you who you are. Be strong my friend. Peace to you and yours. Mr. Flipper