Ya, isnt it funny how, when you remove the forbidden fruit, it isnt as much fun.
I have 2 kids... 22M and 16F... the son smokes cigs, the daughter doesnt yet. The son and me sat down to drink a bunch of beer and we both got tired and went to bed before getting very far.... I hardly drink now and he just isnt into it.
We had a pool party and I told the daughter she could have one of her moms Rum drinks. She said no thanks, she wasnt in the mood. hehe... too funny, I woulda took the Rum bottle and said thanks, at her age.
Raising kids also involves some luck, and a good spouse. My wife did most of the teaching, I held them to it. I spent most of thier youth working away from home, or taking roadtrips with the boys. She, and they, done good.
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