I am just making a post for future reference :)
Ex sistas, help a bro out--signals that show you're interested
by rebel8 24 Replies latest jw friends
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eclipse
Nvrgnbk, my friend, I didn't know you were a lady in diguise....
Sighing and moaning is unusual first date behavior by a woman..unless this a booty call type of date....
Common Sistas! We need more of your input...
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eclipse
(double post)
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brinjen
Observe her body language, if she's facing towards you. Feet pointed towards you is another good sign.
Make a couple of jokes, if she has a good laugh, another good sign.
Curiosity will get the better of her as well, she'll start asking you 'getting to know you better' questions, like asking for you input or opinion.
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Jim_TX
One sure sign that she's NOT interested...
If you call her up and say, "Want to go out on Saturday (or other) night?" and she replies, "I'm washing my hair (or clothes - or other excuse)."
If it happens once - you might overlook it as coincidence. If it happens twice or three times - she's NOT interested. Move on to the next one.
I had this happen to me more than once when I was a younger fella. It took me a while to figure it out - but I finally learned - she's NOT interested.
Gals won't just come right out and say, "I'm not interested in you. Leave me alone. Go away." or somesuch.
The last couple of times that this happened to me, I went up the gal and told her to her face, "You won't have to worry about me bothering you anymore - I'm moving out of town." She looked rather shocked that I would say something like that. (Yeah... right.)
The very last gal that dissed me - had given me her phone number written on a smallish piece of paper. After she gave me the 'hair washing' excuse, the next time I saw her, I gave her her phone number back - on the piece of paper, and said, "Here. I won't need this anymore."
Just thought that I'd add my .02 worth.
Regards,
Jim TX -
UnConfused
If she trusts you enough to take a check instead of cash.
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nvrgnbk
Make a couple of jokes, if she has a good laugh, another good sign.
I guess I'm SOL.
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rebel8
I think in general, if she pays attention to you, watch for more signals. If you're ever not sure but don't want to let the opportunity go, ask her privately if she would be interested in going for coffee. Take no for an answer but if she says yes, go and just develop a friendship first.
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nvrgnbk
just develop a friendship first.
Now there's an idea. Thanks rebel8!
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bigdreaux
nvrgnbck usually never gets past, "hi, i'm'........... haha kidding.