(((mis)))I agree with the others who said that your letter was heartfelt, to the point and not a "hate" letter.
I DAed 14 years ago to make a clean break - not that I did something to warrant a DFing. I took back control and I didn't want to be bothered by them. That's just me. Others desire to fade or whatever else they choose. I certainly don't hold that against anyone or think lesser of them.
I send you a big hug and kiss,
Juni PS And here I thought that was your little one in your avatar...... that's cute.
I love how you said you DA'd yourself to take back control. That's sort of how I see it, I don't want anyone to think I haven't made a choice for myself. I'm doing it for me and no one else.
You know the nice thing about my avatar picture, before my mom decided to not talk to me anymore she brought by a huge box of old pictures of us when we were kids and I was able to scan them all. I will always be grateful that she did that, because she didn't have to.
Thank you Purps & BizzyBee. I was so afraid to do this but it was something I felt I needed to do. Now I just sort of feel relieved. 