AS A 16 YEAR OLD am i able to choose to have a blood transfusion

by Lotus65 16 Replies latest watchtower medical

  • jgnat
    jgnat

    Your opinion and reasons would certainly be taken in to account. The courts would like some reassurance that you are making an informed decision. A young Witness girl in this city, the same age as you, was deemed a "mature minor" when her leukemia progressed to the point that she was fully aware of the consequences. She chose alternative treatment and no blood transfusions. Her choices probably shortened her life.

    But her rights are yours, too. If you want to take a blood transfusion based on your own conscience and informed decision making, the courts would take your opinion seriously. IF YOU DO END UP in a situation where your opinion differs from those of your parents, simply ask the doctor to speak to you privately. Let him know of your decision.

  • Scully
    Scully

    If your parents are JWs, they won't like your decision. If you are baptized, you will probably find yourself DA'd "by your actions".

    If you are ever in an accident and are unconscious, the hospital will count on your parents to make the decision on your behalf.

    What you need to do is have a wallet card that states your wishes in the event that you are unconscious. Go to your Guidance Counsellor at school and tell them your situation - that your parents will refuse a blood transfusion if you are unconscious, and that you want some help to make an Advance Medical Directive stating that you do not agree with the JW position and that you have decided to accept necessary blood transfusions and blood products of your own volition. Your Guidance Counsellor can help you find someone to draw up a legally binding document. He or she may be able to put you in touch with Legal Aid where you can get this document created and notarized at little or no expense to you.

    You will need to have a copy of this document on file with your family doctor - if you don't want it discussed with your parents, make sure he or she is aware of that too. If you've ever been hospitalized in the past, you should make a trip to the hospital where you were treated as a JW and make sure this document is part of your medical records. Tell them that you want any reference to your being JW deleted from the record.

  • jwfacts
    jwfacts

    Good point Claw, the Sabbath is one of the 10 commandments whereas abstaining from blood isn't. Neither is eatting blood ever mentioned in relation to being disfellowshipped, nor is it one of the sins mentioned in Revelation.

  • eknight58
    eknight58

    Depends on the Mature Minor Laws in your State. Some states believe a 16 year old can make a mature decision. The court may asked questions to determine how mature you are and/or require a psyc evaluation before deciding.

  • theinfamousone
    theinfamousone

    no they dont have any scriptural reason to do this... theyre nuts... thats the reason!

    the infamous one

  • Leolaia
    Leolaia

    It is not scriptural. Yes, the Bible says to not eat blood. Never mind the fact that transfusing blood is not the same thing as eating blood but rather is an organ transplant (which the Society otherwise allows, even tho some organs do contain some blood). What the Bible does not say is that one must not eat blood under pain of death. In fact, Jesus several times advised that the usual commandments can be set aside if life is at stake. He mentioned the incident of "what David did in his time of need when he and his followers were hungry, how they went into the House of God when Abiathar was high priest, and ate the loaves of offering which only the priests were allowed to eat, and how he also gave some to the men with him" (Mark 2:25-26). In unusual circumstances, in one's time of need, the usual demands of the commandments can be relaxed. The same thing was the case with resting on the sabbath, Jesus says that saving life is more important than observing this law: "Is it against the law on the sabbath day to do good, or to do evil, to save life, or to kill?" (Mark 3:4). This was the same idea that many other Jewish rabbis had, that almost any law could be set aside in order to save life (as this would fulfill the bigger law in Leviticus 19:16-18, endorsed by Jesus, that one must "love your neighbor as yourself" and must "not jeopardize your neighbor's life"). This is very basic jurisprudence. The problem with the Society is that it has no sense of jurisprudence and demands that some laws must be obeyed to the point of death, even though eating blood was never a life or death matter in the Bible -- unless it were to hold off dire starvation, and as Jesus indicated in Mark 2:26-26, one can do what needs to be done to be fed in one's time of need.

    The reason why animal blood is not eaten, btw, is because meat requires the killing of the animal and the blood is offered to God as an atoning sacrifice (Leviticus 17:10-14, Deuteronomy 12:23-28), as the life of the animal was believed to be in the blood. Blood transfusions are entirely different because NO KILLING OCCURS when blood is donated. People are not slaughtered in order to get the blood used in transfusions. Since life is not taken, there is no life to atone for (Leviticus 17:11). The atonement ritual described in Leviticus, which involves pouring the blood to the ground and covering it with earth, simply has no relevance. I do wonder tho what the Society does to atone for all the deaths of JWs who fail to accept transfusions in their "time of need" in order to "save life". Does the GB not jeopardize their neighbor's life by forbidding a medical procedure on the basis of blood that is not eaten and does not need to be atoned for?

  • stillajwexelder
    stillajwexelder

    If as a 16 year old you have a right to refuse blood then you also have a right to accept it

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