...to have noticed this and made efforts to regain me, thinking they could simultaneously make use of my newfound strength and competence and squash my irritating new independence...
Thank you for putting in to words what I have noticed. I call the phenomenon "fresh meat". As a never-JW and competent Christian, I've noticed that they want me very badly. Me and my daughter. We ARE clean-cut and moral. We would make LOVELY Jehovah's Witnesses. I don't know if it shows, but whenever they put on the sales pitch to come to the hall, I have a very strong EWWWW reaction.
Equally reprehensible is their strong aversion to my son, who DOES NOT look like an "Awake" poster boy.
Do JW's pick and choose who they want to bring along with them to Paradise?