I recently received a phone call from an Elder about an alegation that one of my ex-girlfriends brought up to the elders in her cong (the thing that she told the elders about was supposed to have happened 5 years ago when we were still together). He told me what she had said about me and I said "o.k." in order to not confirm or deny that it was true. I asked him if he was accusing me of this sin and he said "once someone brings up something like this, then it becomes an accusation."
I was under the impression that in order to accuse someone of a sin, that an Elder must speak with you in the company of at least another brother. Is a phone call like this supposed to even happen? Is it likely that if i go back to the hall (long shot) that they can confront me about these alegations?