those that chose to be in....not born in

by purplesofa 18 Replies latest jw friends

  • purplesofa
    purplesofa

    Of all the things I have read on this board, I never really thought of JW's as being a cult,

    Just some paragraphs out of Combatting Cult Mind Control by Steven Hassan, the perspective for me has changed.

    pages 69, 70 and 71.....selected paragraphs.

    Sensory overload like sensory deprivation, also effectively distrupts a person's balance and makes him more open to suggestion. A person can be bombarded by emotionally laden material at a rate faster than he can digest. The result is a feeling of being overwhelmed. The mind snaps into neutral and ceases to evaluate the material pouring in. The newcome may think this is happening spontaniously within himself but the group has intentionally structured it that way.

    Changing

    Changing consists of imposing a new personal idenity-----a new set of behaviors, thoughts and emotions---to fill the void left by the breakdown of the old one. Indoctrination in thi snew identiity takes place both formally (as in seminars and rituals) and informally (by spending time with members, reading, and listening to tapes and videos). Many of the same techniquies used in the unfreezing phase are also carried to this phase as well.

    Repetition, monotony, rhythem: these are the lulling, hypnotic cadences which the formal indoctronation is generally delivered. Material is repeated over and over and over. If the lecturers are sophisticated, they vary their talks somewhat in an attempt to hold interest, but the message is the same every time.

    During the "changing" phase, all this repetition focuses on certain central themes. The recruits are told how bad the world is and that the unenlightened have no idea how to fix it. This is because ordinary people lack the new "understanding" that has been brought by the leader. the leader is the only hope of lasting happiness. Recruits are told, "your 'old' self is what's keeping you from fully experiancing the 'new truth' Your 'old concepts' are what drag you down. Your 'rational' mind is holding you back from fantastic progress. Surrender. Let go. Have faith."

    The formal indoctination sessions can be very droning and rhythmic--a way to induce hypnotic states. It is fairly comon for people to fall asleep during these programs. When I was a cult lecturer I chatised people and made them feel guilty if they fell asleep, but in fact they were merely responding well to hypnosis....Even while lightly dozing, a person is still more or less hearing the material and being affected by it, with his normal intellectual defenses down.

    A common technique among religious cults is to instruct people to ask God what He wants them to do. Members are exhorted to study and pray in order to know God's will for them. It is aways implied that joining the group is God's will and leaving the group is betraying it. Of course, if a person tells the cult leader that God is warning him to leave, this will not be accepted as valid.

    Perhaps the most powerful persuasion is exerted by the other cult members themselves. For the average person, talking with an indoctrinated cultist is quite an expericance. You have probably never met anyone else, friend or stranger, who is so absolutely convinced that he knows what is best for you. A dedicated cult member also does not take no for an answer, becuase he has been indoctrinated to believe that if you don't join, he is to blame. This create alot of pressure on him to suceed.

    Human beings have an incredible capacity to adapt to new enviroments. Destructive cults know how to exploit this strength. By controlling a person's enviroment, using behavior modification to reward some behaviors and suppress others, and inducing hypnotic states, they may indeed reprogram a person's identity.

    The first and most important task of the "new" person is to denigrate his previous self. The worst thing is for the person to act like himself--unless it is the new cult self, which is fully formed after several months. An individual's memory becomes distorted, minimizing the good things in the past and maximizing the sins, the failings, the hurt and the guilt. Special talents, interests, hobbies, friends, and family must be abandoned---preferably in dramatic public actions ---if they complete with commitment to the cause. Confession becomes another way to purge the person's past and embed him in the cult.

    The group now forms the member's "true" family; any other is just his outmoded "physical" family.

    Its like hitting yourself on the head.........Wow, I could have had a V8. I understand how it happened, absorbing it all like a sponge. But those are problems I had before ever "putting on the new personality" Those issues I will talk about some other time.

    Insulate, don't isolate.

    purps

    edited to add: Is the bible one big cult book? What do you think?

  • purplesofa
    purplesofa
    http://www.freedomofmind.com/resourcecenter/articles/BITE.htm
    Mind Control - The BITE Model

    From chapter two of Releasing the Bonds: Empowering People to Think for Themselves*

    *© 2000 by Steven Hassan; published by Freedom of Mind Press, Somerville MA

    Destructive mind control can be understood in terms of four basic components, which form the acronym BITE:

    I.

    Behavior Control

    II.

    Information Control

    III.

    Thought Control

    IV.

    Emotional Control

    It is important to understand that destructive mind control can be determined when the overall effect of these four components promotes dependency and obedience to some leader or cause. It is not necessary for every single item on the list to be present. Mind controlled cult members can live in their own apartments, have nine-to-five jobs, be married with children, and still be unable to think for themselves and act independently.

    I. Behavior Control

    1. Regulation of individual's physical reality

    a. Where, how and with whom the member lives and associates with
    b. What clothes, colors, hairstyles the person wears
    c. What food the person eats, drinks, adopts, and rejects
    d. How much sleep the person is able to have
    e. Financial dependence
    f. Little or no time spent on leisure, entertainment, vacations

    2. Major time commitment required for indoctrination sessions and group rituals

    3. Need to ask permission for major decisions

    4. Need to report thoughts, feelings and activities to superiors

    5. Rewards and punishments (behavior modification techniques- positive and negative).

    6. Individualism discouraged; group think prevails

    7. Rigid rules and regulations

    8. Need for obedience and dependency

    II. Information Control

    1. Use of deception

    a. Deliberately holding back information
    b. Distorting information to make it acceptable
    c. Outright lying

    2. Access to non-cult sources of information minimized or discouraged

    a. Books, articles, newspapers, magazines, TV, radio
    b. Critical information
    c. Former members
    d. Keep members so busy they don't have time to think

    3. Compartmentalization of information; Outsider vs. Insider doctrines

    a. Information is not freely accessible
    b. Information varies at different levels and missions within pyramid
    c. Leadership decides who "needs to know" what

    4. Spying on other members is encouraged

    a. Pairing up with "buddy" system to monitor and control
    b. Reporting deviant thoughts, feelings, and actions to leadership

    5. Extensive use of cult generated information and propaganda

    a. Newsletters, magazines, journals, audio tapes, videotapes, etc.
    b. Misquotations, statements taken out of context from non-cult sources

    6. Unethical use of confession

    a. Information about "sins" used to abolish identity boundaries
    b. Past "sins" used to manipulate and control; no forgiveness or absolution

    III. Thought Control

    1. Need to internalize the group's doctrine as "Truth"

    a. Map = Reality
    b. Black and White thinking
    c. Good vs. evil
    d. Us vs. them (inside vs. outside)

    2. Adopt "loaded" language (characterized by "thought-terminating clichés"). Words are the tools we use to think with. These "special" words constrict rather than expand understanding. They function to reduce complexities of experience into trite, platitudinous "buzz words".

    3. Only "good" and "proper" thoughts are encouraged.

    4. Thought-stopping techniques (to shut down "reality testing" by stopping "negative" thoughts and allowing only "good" thoughts); rejection of rational analysis, critical thinking, constructive criticism.

    a. Denial, rationalization, justification, wishful thinking
    b. Chanting
    c. Meditating
    d. Praying
    e. Speaking in "tongues"
    f. Singing or humming

    5. No critical questions about leader, doctrine, or policy seen as legitimate

    6. No alternative belief systems viewed as legitimate, good, or useful

    IV. Emotional Control

    1. Manipulate and narrow the range of a person's feelings.

    2. Make the person feel like if there are ever any problems it is always their fault, never the leader's or the group's.

    3. Excessive use of guilt

    a. Identity guilt

    1. Who you are (not living up to your potential)
    2. Your family
    3. Your past
    4. Your affiliations
    5. Your thoughts, feelings, actions

    b. Social guilt
    c. Historical guilt

    4. Excessive use of fear

    a. Fear of thinking independently
    b. Fear of the "outside" world
    c. Fear of enemies
    d. Fear of losing one's "salvation"
    e. Fear of leaving the group or being shunned by group
    f. Fear of disapproval

    5. Extremes of emotional highs and lows.

    6. Ritual and often public confession of "sins".

    7. Phobia indoctrination : programming of irrational fears of ever leaving the group or even questioning the leader's authority. The person under mind control cannot visualize a positive, fulfilled future without being in the group.

    a. No happiness or fulfillment "outside"of the group
    b. Terrible consequences will take place if you leave: "hell"; "demon possession"; "incurable diseases"; "accidents"; "suicide"; "insanity"; "10,000 reincarnations"; etc.
    c. Shunning of leave takers. Fear of being rejected by friends, peers, and family.
    d. Never a legitimate reason to leave. From the group's perspective, people who leave are: "weak;" "undisciplined;" "unspiritual;" "worldly;" "brainwashed by family, counselors;" seduced by money, sex, rock and roll.


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  • Abandoned
    Abandoned

    I'm glad your enjoying that book. I was sad when I finished it because I wanted it to go on and on. Releasing the bonds is on the way so that's good.

  • OnTheWayOut
    OnTheWayOut

    Purps, when I first read that book, I posted a section of it on here.
    I hit my head and said the same thing- I coulda had a V8. (not literally, but figuratively)

    What amazes me is that the stuff WTS does is so common. There are tons of cults
    out there preaching doomsday, Armageddon, only we have the truth, etc.

    We learned to scoff at them and accept WT as true.

    Thanks for posting.

  • BabaYaga
    BabaYaga

    Thanks for this, Purps... I have to say, I love your quote, "Insulate, don't isolate."

    Cheers
    Baba

  • J-ex-W
    J-ex-W
    Human beings have an incredible capacity to adapt to new enviroments. Destructive cults know how to exploit this strength.

    I'm glad the article makes this distinction, calling the adaptability a strength. So many who do not understand the dynamism of cult conversion assume it must be a person's weakness that allows him to adapt....

    the new cult self, which is fully formed after several months.

    Several months...that is scary!!! It takes only months to fully change over.... Of course, this must be within a more intensive, physically controlled cult environment. The JW's are a little less intensive, and less physically controlled. They say it takes an average of about three years for a new Bible student to make the decision to become baptized. But, I suppose, deep-rooted changes have occurred long before the outward manifestation of it.

  • serendipity
    serendipity

    Hi purps, When I get the book, I plan to determine if first century Christianity was a cult, by his criteria.

  • purplesofa
    purplesofa

    I'm glad the article makes this distinction, calling the adaptability a strength . So many who do not understand the dynamism of cult conversion assume it must be a person's weakness that allows him to adapt....

    I was disfellowshipped for nine years. Way longer than I was ever IN, from the first of studying to baptism. You would think after nine years out, the hold would be gone. The mixture of some truth and some untruth......keeps us confused.

    I think most of us that came in and not born in were searching. Our hearts were pure in our search. Afterall, we were moaning and groaning over the detestable things of the earth. We wanted to make a difference and they were telling us the only way it could be done lasting and effectively was through them.

    The constant bombardment that the world is coming to an end, the need to develop the right heart condition, the angels are directing the preaching work(AND look you were found) The immediate wedge that comes between oneself and family/friends, your very everylasting life depends on the knowledge you take in...........is intensive.

    I don't have my thoughts fully formulated. I do know its nice to be able to read, learn research and come to my own conclusions for a change.

    purps

  • juni
    juni

    purps said:

    think most of us that came in and not born in were searching. Our hearts were pure in our search. Afterall, we were moaning and groaning over the detestable things of the earth. We wanted to make a difference and they were telling us the only way it could be done lasting and effectively was through them.

    The constant bombardment that the world is coming to an end, the need to develop the right heart condition, the angels are directing the preaching work(AND look you were found) The immediate wedge that comes between oneself and family/friends, your very everylasting life depends on the knowledge you take in...........is intensive

    Agree with you.

    Juni

  • AK - Jeff
    AK - Jeff

    I really need to read the book, Purps. Thanx for the post and reminder.

    I have read some of Lofton's perspectives and portions of the book online, as well as parts of Hassan's, but I really need to read it as a 'body of work'. What is amazing is that he has not singled out jw's, in fact as I was told he doesn't even mention them, but it all fits so well.

    It took me maybe 1 1/2 or 2 years out of the organization to finally call it a cult. Now I know there is no more accurate term for it.

    Jeff

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