Hi Mulan,
It's not just the jewelry...that's just one thing I mentioned as an example...Just by looking at you and observing your body language, they can pick up a lot. of info about you. They can tell your approximate age.. the quality, cut and style of your clothing will give them clues as to your lifestyle and your taste. How you carry yourself, your mannerisms..., there's a lot they can pick up before you say a word. Once you do speak, most people give more info without realizing it. Your speach patterns give further clues. Your reactions to what they are telling you also gives them more info. Then, the things they tell you are worded in such a way that they can be interpreted in numerous ways. You are already predisposed to try to make what they say fit into your own circumstances. My best friend does this all the time when she has readings. I just shake my head...
Even if everything they said was accurate...and they can tell you about what you do for a living etc....what purpose does it serve? Don't you already know what you do for a living? If they tell you you are creative (that's one they always say to my best friend) wouldn't you already know that? It just seems silly to me. When all is said and done, do they give you info you didn't already know that will improve your life somehow? Seems like such a waste of time and money to me. My friend spends a lot on this... and really can't afford it. If it's just entertainment....maybe, but my best friend hangs on every word.
I saw a documentary recently where several people went to a person claiming to be a psychic for a reading. The "psychic" (who really wasn't) told each of them the exact same thing...word for word...didn't alter it a bit. Every one of these people came out of the 'reading" raving about the experience...amazed that the reader could give them so much accurate specific info about their life. It's all in the wording... and each of these people were of different ages, races and sexes... but it was a one size fits all reading. Each one had taken what they were told and made it fit their lives...even though their lives were completely different. At the end, the people putting on the documentary let these people in on what was really going on. Every single one was shocked that they had been duped...
I guess this subject gets to me because I see my best friend getting more and more involved with this stuff every day. She is now seeing everything through an astrology filter. In a recent conversation I told her that in my own spiritual journey I don't need a middle man (reader) to tell me what I already know about myself. I don't want to know the future. I want to travel my journey living my life day by day, not looking for signs of what the "universe is trying to tell me" I don't need a "science" (astrology) to tell me my strengths, weaknesses and talents etc. I already know about them. Her spiritual belief system involves all of those things. My spiritual belief system simply involves a one on one relationship with God. She responded that that's because I have "Sagitarius" as my rising sign.
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