I'm not DF'd/DA'd just a (so far) successfull fader. But since I have so much family still in, I still have contact with a lot of JWs.
I was invited to a JW
party get-together a few weeks ago and was shunned by some guy I didn't even know. The JWs in attendance that I had known for years were actually pretty decent and we had a good time, but this one 'brother', who apparently had moved into the territory since my departure from regular meeting attendance completely ignored me. When I tried to introduce myself, he acted like he didn't see or hear me. He looked right through me as if I wasn't there. When I walked up to a group, if he was there he walked away. If I was brought into a conversation, he excused himself. It was obvious that he had no intention of acknowledging my presence or interacting with me.
I've never met this guy...never seen him before. He doesn't know me. And if he should know who I am, that doesn't mean that he knows anything about me. To shun me based on what little he heard about me from third parties is pretty judgemental.
But it wasn't my first shunning...to be honest, I don't remember the first one. I was shunned enough by both JWs and non-JWs growing up that I've become kind of oblivious to all but the most obvious of attempts.