I didn't realise it, but Trev just told me that today is one year to the date since I first visited him at his home to do some research on the internet about the wts. I hadn't been going to all the meetings for a while at that time, and the month before I came here I hadn't been at all, but was unsure, despite my doubts, whether I wanted to leave the jws then or not.
I read on Quotes, Freeminds and this site, and Trev printed some stuff for me to read later. I think it took about a fortnight of research before I decided that it wasn't the truth and I wasn't going back, so I joined the forum and da'd soon after.
He is so thoughtful, he's just walked in with a bottle of wine, some Chinese food and a bunch of flowers, so I am having a totally unexpected anniversary celebration today.