I was held captive in a totalitarian country for over three decades. I escaped the dictator and went to a free land, but at considerable personal cost. I left a lot of friends and family behind, and I lost much more than that.
I am now a freedom fighter, working to bring down this horrible dictatorship. I still have family living under this totalitarian regime.
You want me to "let go and get on???" WTF!! One of the survivors of the holocaust spent the rest of his life fighting that horror, and won considerable world acclaim for it.
This is not exactly like you had a couple of problems in life and now you need to move on. Assuming such is incredibly arrogant of you, and is really pissing me off.
What universe do you come from where people can "let go and get on" from teachings and ideas that have fucked up so many lives?? Those are the screwed up ones, people who can leave it and not feel a need to help those still in slavery, not those of us who want to end this madness. Get real. This is not a harmless religion.