In public yes. My hubby was a MS, I was a pioneer, both of our young kids were in the school and out in field service every saturday. The kids were polite and hubby and I got along great. We were often called the "ideal" family.
At home - our oldest child (12 at the time) was depressed and stayed in bed all day long. Our son who was 10 used to cry that he was too tired to go to all those meetings and just wanted to watch cartoons on saturday like "regular" kids. My hubby and I fought all the time over doctrinal things and were on the verge of divorce. And I wanted to commit suicide.
Within a few months of leaving the Borg. ALL of these problems were corrected. My kids are doing great and have lots of friends. My hubby and I hardly ever fight about anything, and I am no longer depressed.
We discovered that we were all just stressed out and just plain tired of trying to put on appearences. It was literally draining all our energy and we didn't have time to just spend together as a family. And the WT was always a wedge in my marriage due to all the ridiculous rules for married people. We used to hold hands and kiss in public and even that is forbidden in WT world. Its like we stopped showing affection for each other and it spilled over in all areas of our lives.
We had to learn how to be a family and married couple all over again. It took time but we are doing great. Lilly