Yesterday, my husband, self and children went to the birthday party of a man that my husband works with.
Even after five years of not being JW, this is the first time I had been at a non JW party!
What an eye opener! I had expected rampant immoral behaviour, swearing, drunkeness....etc!!!
The people were lovely. There were about seventy people there ranging from babies to a grandmother.
They were all lovely!!! They talked to us and there was no sense of being judged as I had always experienced at JW gatherings.
I watched husbands and boyfriends helping their wives and girlfriends, and not one off flirting with anyone. The men were helping to clear up and doing all the work There plenty of young couples and singles all brilliantly and impeccably behaved. My God! Is this the world Jehovah plans to destroy for its wickedness!!
The children were all well behaved and their parents looked after them. Some were smoking and there was no shortage of alcohol but No One was pissed off there head or unpleasant.
To me, it was a real eye opener.
I had always found JW gatherings a horrible experience, the few we had attended.
Maybe it's only JWs that can't be trusted to have large gatherings. These people were TOTALLY civil and civilised.
Was I a fool for so long? Oh yes!