PS baby cakes, when I went back and looked at your time line, it appears that Mr. Wonderful was having an affair with YOU while his wife was either pregnant or had just given birth to his SON. What kind of slimeball does that to his wife and newborn child??
I was thinking too that if he was married to a JW he probably went to the meetings with her and then Im sure the JWs know that he cheated on her and thats most likely why she left him. (And in the JWs eyes, adultery is the only reason they could BE divorced which would free her to remarry) It couldnt be that they divorced because she was a JW if he is now, only a short time later, getting involved with the JWs. This may be his way of hooking back up with HER and you, my friend, are just his bootie call in case his long time plans dont pan out with the ex.
This smells on many levels.