Thanks all for the help. I made the call and they will try to beg out at the last minute. Hope they can follow through. It is actually a conversation I should have had with this person long time ago. Glad it's done with. They were shocked, sad, and found many things unbelievable. They agreed that they didn't feel qualified to go up against a jw at this time until learning more about the org. phew! what a relief!