Thanks to all for the support.
Gordy, sounds like typical shunning, but I am curious. You refer to her as your JW wife. Assuming you don't have other wives in different religions, it sounds like you're still married to her but haven't seen her for 3 or 4 years.Oh! How I wish that was true about the hookers. My wife and I married in 1974 , I had been a JW since 1971, and have been separated since December 1996. Not because of the hookers, unfortunately. But because from April 1996 I suffered from acute clinical depression and attempted suicide. She asked me to leave home and family, later I discovered it was under the influence of the Elders who considered me a "spiritual danger" to the family. I started looking into the Watchtower using such "demonic, satanic" websites such as Freeminds. I continued as a JW till August 1999 when I stopped attending meetings. I disassociated September 2001. Up until then I was able to visit my children who still lived with my wife, 2 were JW's , 2 were not at the family home. After I DA'd I was stopped from going to the home and also from seeing my two JW daughters, who I also have not seen since either. My non-JW children come to see me.
Did I understand that correctly? Could there be other issues she has with you? Like the time she came home and caught you with two hookers?? etc.?