After I was reproved, A local needs (about two weeks later) was given. It described virtually everything I done without giving my name. Everyone knew the talk was about me. I went home that night and threw my bag at the couch out of disgust at what had just happened that night at the hall. The society should bring out an article on the meaning of the word confidentiality and sort themselves and the elder bodies out!
During the many years I faded away, I felt bitter about the whole way it was handled. It did not even qualify for a public reproof as I wasnt practicing this particular sin, (1Tim 5:20- 20 Reprove before all onlookers persons who practice sin, that the rest also may have fear); it was a one off sin which I was clearly repentant about, particularly as I voluntarily chose to seek help and speak to the elders about my wrong doing.
The so called self proclaimed slave should start reading their bibles and handle things correctly!