I really appreciate you putting this out there DigitalFokus, this is really important for men on here and all men to hear. You guys may think to yourselves this rarely happens and when it does is happens in strange and far away places. I know how you feel I felt and thought this way too, "something like this could never happen to me." Well as crazy as far fetched as it sounds look fellas it did. One night me and a few of buddies went to the local bar to hang out shoot some pool and have fun. A girl came up to me and starting talking. Naturally I thought she was being friendly and just wanted to have some quality conversation. But about 10 minutes into talking she asks the bartender for a pitcher of beer. I was reluctant at first of course, but I drank 1 glass and then a second, and then eventually five. Next thing I knew it was 1 hour later and what I thought was just a girl looking for a friendly talk turned into a nightmare. Slightly drunk and not fully understanding what was going on she drove me back to her place. What happened next is too painful and too gruesome for me to describe in depth. Lets just say she had her way with me. ~single tear~ Next thing I knew this became a regular occurance, and next thing I knew we were in this thing DigitalFokus mentioned - a "relationship". She made me listen to her feelings, buy her dinner, take her to the movies, buy her jewerly and other horrifying things I wish not to recall. After a few months of this, she eventually left me because "she felt too restricted" as she said. I was left confused, distraut, bewildered, and with a couple thousand dollars less in my savings account. All of this horrible experience started because of this "beer" that she made me drink. Listen guys dont make the same mistake I did. ITS NOT A MYTH. It can happen to you. ---- Jonathan
